WAW Affair Confirmed - Advice?

[DCBHM]

Apparently I didn't ruin her day after all. When I picked up D1, W's family told me she just left to go stay at OM's house all day - and she even told me that she was there and that I just needed to bring D1 to my house and she'd get her there.

Her family pretty much came out and said they know what is going on at this point, and I spoke to W for a few minutes before she left and asked her if she had any interest in seeing if the M could be saved at all. She said "No."

I told her I didn't expect anything different as far as an answer - but told her I'd at least like her to come clean with me about her relationship.

I asked how long it had been going on. She said "It hasn't been going on long." I told her I suspected since October/November and she said "No it wasn't going on before we separated." I told her "So you admit you have a relationship going on now?" She said "No I'm just talking about friendship." I said - "You two were friends long before our separation, as far back as August - so what do you mean by 'it hasn't been going on long'?"

Then she just said "I don't know. I'm just going to go."

So she still isn't being honest about it, and is very much entrenched in the fog, because I got video, etc. that is going to just add more. She was parked out front of his house the entire day.

Anyway, told my therapist it was just going to be me coming from now on.

I picked up "Not 'just friends'" today from the book store, so I hope to read that.

LRT/GAL is my only recourse at this point, and I'm going to be doing what I have to in order to win the 'war' that is ongoing as well.

It didn't really phase me at all talking to her though. I wasn't hurt, I wasn't angry. Just astonished that she is that far into the fog that she doesn't realize she is shooting herself in the foot legally - and we have deposition next Friday which is going to kill her case considering all the evidence I've got if she tries to lie.

I did ask her if she felt guilty at all, and she waited 10-15 seconds before answering "I dunno" and shrugging her shoulders.

Just... wow...