Glam., listen to me on this one. I have noticed some changes in you. Increasing the exercise, trying the new stuff in the hair, detox diet. I am sure your H has noticed them to. Why not let him notice a few more? Make your OWN plans tomorrow. The first day you are supposed to go with him to workout, go alone, tell him you forgot that he was going with you. Don't answer his texts or calls for a couple of days. Make it SEEM like its no big deal that he isn't comming over. Follow me on this one? If you continue down the road you are traveling you are going to continue to end up where you are. Take a different path for a bit, what do you have to lose?