It's amazing how the OM can completely cloud a normally rational person's judgment. I heard it once on here, but it sounds like the WAW w/ OM that still wants to be friends with LBS wants her cake and to eat it too.
That's my sitch as well.
H40 (me) W34 (WAW) S6 T11 M10
Feb09: Need a break bomb Mar09: I moved to apartment to GAL, PMA, NMMNG Apr09: WAW 'dating' OM at work, positive around me lately.