Well I will try to not be dissappointed. It was noon and h still hadn't arrived, so I check my phone. Sure enough early today h sends a text that says couldn't sleep last night, won't be coming today, see you tomorrow.

Here we go again. H is his worst victim. Rather than not coming later, he chooses not to come at all. I am sure it is more of the depression talking vs not sleeping. I wish my h could shake the depression that has such a grip over his life. It's almost as if, it has become his crutch, but it's also like he is paralyzed to fight back.

There is much more than just meds to fight depression. My h will need to dig deep to want to conquer this and improve his life. It's as if he stands idely by and allows the depression to consume him. He will need to try new tactics if he wants to have more of a life than he has. So sad!

Not so sure what I can do to help him? Any ideas?


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"