You said: One of the employees that is around H's age said that H got drunk one time and told him that his lawyer said that he needed to work things out with me or be prepared to lose half of everything.
That steams me, and I don't even know your H. He is not moving forward on a divorce because of money? Leading you on because he doesn't want to lose half of his business? At this point I would be so afraid of getting back together with him for fear he will always "use" you, until he feels financially stable, and then what will he do?
