I really do appreciate you telling me all of that about yourself. I don't think you are arrogant, especially after you explained all that you have been through and yet you still accomplished a lot. There is a difference in confidence and arrogance. You know where your "power" comes from and that is what is important.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!