In Limbo!?

[Hurtinky]

Some more info on my situation. I have been browsing this site for two months and have read "Divorce Busting" and "Divorce Remedy". I have been in the middle of doing 180's and "going dark". Very little to no contact. At the suggestion of friends and my counselor, about 3 weeks ago I wrote a letter to him. I just gave it to him yesterday. His complaints about me and his reasons to be done with our marriage are that I am soooo controlling and angry all the time. He maintains he has had no role in our not marriage working. He says he is turning 50 this year and has wasted enough of his life. So in the letter, I acknowledged my faults and told him about how I am working on changing me. And I let him know how important it is to me to try to work things out both for ourselves and our family. I ended the letter with saying that if he would like to respond to it(negatively or positively)...I would love to hear from him. I guess this was what I feel my last ditch effort is with him.