Standing on the Edge

[MsMelancoly]

Hey native, That is nice to see you had a nice dinner & convo with your wife. You seemed to handle it very well. Maybe she is coming out of the fog, to see you are not a bad guy. She has been doing some self reflection - so that is good.

I still believe that in M both partners place their own happiness too much on the other. Through here many of us have learned that we control our own happiness. But I think many WAS, at first, believe the LBS is the cause of their unhappiness. Finally, too late or not they realize this is not true. Ah, sometimes you just want to shake them, wake them up & say I'm not the cause of ALL your unhappiness!!

Your thoughts about her dates rang true - didn't it?? Your W is so lucky you are still around through all this craziness.