I had to get my daughter up anyway because she has counseling this morning however, I will not encourage my daughter to call. I have simply told her if she would like to call, then do so and if she doesn't she doesn't have to. At 13, I believe that choice should be up to her. When and if I move out of state, I can forsee this situation getting much worse than it already is. The wife has been gone not quite 2 months now and is starting to miss her daughter? Like I said before, if she makes no attempt to fix our marriage, not only will I have no respect for her, I will have no sympathy for her if my daughter chooses not to call her or spend time with her. She acts as if this is all perfectly normal for God's sake!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!