I've woken up for a few days with this feeling, he's gone, its almost too late, he's left it too long even if he is having doubts..I know he is incredibly slow to decide/act emotionally anyway, thats in his makeup, but this is really dragging on. And you know what hurts the most? Not that he is seeing her really, but that he wont see me. He just wont see me, yet he can email, phone and send me presents, but he hasnt seen me since before Christmas. Thats unnacceptable to me now.
Hi Ali, I haven't posted to you in a while. I think it is too hard for them to see us, especially when with OW in their lives. It causes them confusion and major guilt issues. They spend so much time shoving their feelings about us so deep down, that to actually see us would cause them to have doubts about the bad choices they have made for their life.
Ali, do you really want this Man back in your life? Could you trust him again?
Just curious...
Enjoy your weekend!!
And when all else fails, Cadbury's is a fantastic source of comfort with a nice cuppa
((((hugs))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.