Playhouse

[Yoyowife]

I had a very interesting conversation last night. DD20 and a few of her friends asked if they could grill out burgers here last night. One of her friends happens to work for our company. When he walked in he asked where my H was? I said I'm sure he's with OW. He said "Oh, that makes me so mad, I thought ya'll were back together." I said, "Well, things were looking better, but you know him." He said, "Yeah. I think he's crazy and so do the rest of the guys." At this time, he paused and had a look on his face like I shouldn't have said that. I said,"Don't worry, I would never say anything to H because I would not want to jepordize any of your jobs." I said, "So what do all of the guys think of it the situation?" He said, "I don't need to say." After some coaxing, he finally opened up with my assurance that this conversation would not go any further than us. Well, of course that didn't include my DBing buddies. By the way this conversation did not take place in front of DD or any of the others.

Keep in mind that I have known this young man since he was 14 years old, now 21 years old. He went to another school than my DD but they have been friends for years and spent a lot of time at our house. He of course never knew my H very well because as you all remember he was always in the bedroom watching tv. It was me who asked H to hire him.

This is the jest of the friend's remarks. The employees think that the OW/secretart (this was a typo, but I think it's kind of fitting ) is trashy and cannot understand what he sees in her. They say H is crazy because they know he is going to lose everything. He said all of the guys have even said they know that the business wouldn't haven't started without my help. I'm not sure how they know this. One of the employees that is around H's age said that H got drunk one time and told him that his lawyer said that he needed to work things out with me or be prepared to lose half of everything.

Like I said I would never betray this young man. I would not want to jepordize his job. It sure is nice to know that the our employees have some morals and think H is crazy and the OW is trashy!!! It just makes me feel better, yes, I know it's crazy to worry about what others think, but as you all know it's nice to know we are not alone thinking the WAS have lost their minds!