My wifes realtionship with daughter is starting to bother her but she can't relate it well.
My wife lost both her parents before she was 29. She lost her mom when she was 9 in a very trumatic way.
Now tonight we are talking about our daughter and our move to CO. She says I am worried about daughter and I agree. Daughter will be giving up all her friends. Then starts talking about how daughter doesn't love her as much as me. Then starts saying that she doesn't have any sympathy for daughter though because she had it worse as a kid.
That right there is when I have to use every bit of strength to keep my cool. Two things help - all the advice I have seen or been given on these boards (THANK YOU EVERYONE) and the fact that I know this isn't my wife, it's the stress and whatever at play.
