I found out thru a friend that my wife did file yesterday when she met with the attorney. It has been 7 weeks tomorrow since she told me she couldn't do it anymore. I had asked her for a few months so that we could get our finances in order and start agreeing on how to split. I guess she just decided to do it. It feels like I am losing this one. I haven't even had time for her to notice any changes on my side and it looks like a runaway train. I feel like blowing up at her and letting her know that she just triggered a legal fight that I told her we could avoid if we wait to file until we have agreement. My emotions are telling me to call my attorney and go full bore at her. Any feedback that can talk me down? I need some help.
