Man I feel for you, but this is script for WAWs. Most of them that do have EAs/PAa turn around and blame us for everything that went wrong in the marriage. Like we made it so they wanted to go out looking for love, sex, adventure, togetherness, understanding or whatnot outside the marriage. When that outside relationship falls apart, and they realize what they've done, it becomes a blame-game for them. They are good girls! They would never have done what they did in a million years! It must be someone else's fault!
Enter us, the fall guys.
It totally sucks, but we don't have to play that game. We were no saints, surely, but we didn't (usually) cause them to get involved with an OM. That is all on them. They need to work it out for themselves, and in the meantime, we need to GAL and do the things that will improve the relationships we have with our kids, our friends, and our relationship we have with ourselves.
Get off the roller-coaster. Take care of the most important people: your D and you; you can bet your W is taking care of herself right now, too.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09
