So H is coming back. Grass is not greener on another continent? I also do not have any sympathy for him right now. He is getting what he deserves.
These ML'ers rather live miserably than admit they made a mistake.
Continue on and take the high road.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
nlt you seem so strong to me. My xh and ow lives just on the other side of town. This weekend they took my son to a nascar race. My son is 18, but it still gets to me that he is spending time with THEM.
Hi Everyone! Thank you all for posting to me. I haven't been on the computer much. I have gotten out a little bit. I did that volunteer work last week & went to dinner with a GF, so I had a good time.
Sunshine, I don't know how strong I am. It has been very rough for me! All this seems to have happened so fast for you also! I will check out your thread.
I've been working in my yard today, it was so nice outside!! I just loved being out doing things in the yard. Last year at this time when I was doing yard work, all I could do was cry. By no means am I over my ex yet but I'm just trying to GAL for now & just take one day at a time.
Thank you all for being here for me!! I know he is getting what he deserves, I have a feeling it won't last long.
I am glad you are getting out and doing things. Even just getting out in the yard in the beautiful spring weather makes you feel better.
I doubt the M to OW will last. H is quickly discovering life with OW is not as idealistic as he thought it would be. Everything seems to be disintegrating right before his eyes. Did SIL mention when they were planning on moving back to the U.S. and moving in with them?
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
Thank you for posting to me! Addie, I also think this M is coming close to an end with H & OW, I don't know anything for sure but that's the way I feel. My SIL said they were coming back to the US sometime in April & moving in with them for 3 months. So, who knows what will happen after that.
Everyone say a prayer, I went on an interview today for a job. I think I did really well & even the girl I interviewed with said she thought I would fit their needs really well. They still have more interviews but said they would be making a decision this Friday or Monday.
I was so excited about how the interview went, I so wanted to call H & tell him. Of course that is what I would normally do but anyway, maybe one of these days!
n, I hope you get the job. It sounds rather promising. Do you think you would like the work? How's the pay and benefits? Health insurance paid for you by the company? Vacation?
As for your xh....it may still be a while before the marriage begins to unravel. You've got plenty of time...so try not to dwell on it...the watched pot will never boil!
Enjoy the rest of your week.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you for checking in! The job is something that I like to do. It business management for NFL Players, well actually all professional sports & also actors & entertainers. It's something I've done in the past. Pay looks good, benefits are paid also vacation. The owner will also give out bonuses, when the company makes money so does the employees. It's all women in the office with the exception of one man. The owner is a woman also. They told me they also will pray before their staff meeting each time so it seems like a Christian atmosphere.
My xh is very stuborn so I don't know if he will hold everything that I did against me or not. I sometimes worry about it but you know if the shoe was on the other foot & he was trying to find out what I was up to he would have done the same thing or worse. It does sound like his life isn't going so well right now.
