WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 6

[MrBond]

CIPA, you're picking up that "oh woe is me" vibe again. We've all been where you are and you know what? There's nothing you can do about it in terms of your spouse. Take this time to do what you want to do.

Since you've first posted, you jot down how many weeks left until she leaves. You have to get that timeline out of your head so you can make use of the time that you do have. Let me put it to you this way...if there was a person that was terminally ill and they were told they had 1 week to live. Would you lay there and count the minutes until it happened, or would you make every second count?

That's how you have to take it. There's your 2x4.

Go back and read your other posts where you were more assertive. That's what you have to do. Remember you can't control her. But you control how you choose to act and what to do.