Amy,
I am still getting through your 1st thread. Similarites that really jump out at me are:
1) the wedding ring - you asked your H to take his off (made me cry....my husband already stopped wearing his around our last anniversary. my h always took his ring off every night before bed, but put it on every a.m. i pathetically asked him on 2/14 (just before our big 2/15 S talk) if he would wear it for V day as a gift to me (what i sap i am). he did but now it sits in his drawer.

2) you mentioned always wanting to go on a cruise - i hope that you have done that by now! like i mentioned, i am still only reading thread 1 so you have probably had many cool adventures since...

my husband is "dead set" against a cruise. he thinks it is all about the eating and drinking...

3) you mentioned horseback riding! my daughter was an avid rider (english). we just recently became "horse free". sold our t-bred and now have much free time on our hands. i hope you were able to re-connect in that world!

4) i wonder if you are still in biz with h? i still am, and we still live together, and in these economic times things are tough! luckily we still have referrals and work.

I was trying to figure out how to reach you on your own thread, but haven't been so successful so hopefully you read this here. \:\)

current status:
Friday night, 5:00pm pt no sign of H, no call from H, will make own plans!

xo,
abby