Hi Didi,
Nice to catch up with you. I'm reading "Surviving An Affair" right now by Dr. Willard Harley. He decribes exactly what you are feeling in his book. You are doing everything exactly right. You are working hard to keep OM out of your life. He says that any communication with the OP can cause a major setback. You are truly a wonderful person for realizing what you have to do to save your family. Too bad not every WAS has the courage and sense of family you do. I know that you are on well on the road to recovery, but I still think the book could benefit you.

Hugs, Yoyo




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon