A New Decade

[MsMelancoly]

Update on my sitch .... well this will be a 2 parter. Well, my H emailed me his D papers. He wrote: Here is my finished junk. Oh I am in debt. Bet you are glad it is not your problem anymore

Yes, my H is in debt. When he left me he was down to 5,000 now he is at $10,000. Whether or not he loves me (which I believe he still does), I realize he cannot come back. His pride and guilt of this debt & his suspected A will not allow him to. He has made such a mess of his life. And he has taken very few steps to even repair our friendship or M. I did offer to help him sell some of his toys on ebay to pay off some of his debt. We will see if he takes me up on it. Yes, another DB no, no. Although, DBcoach Jody did approve of it - so maybe not.

Just like his mum, which he learned from so well, he is in debt & still running from life. I had hoped when we got M that he would stop running. But, I know he cannot - it is who he is.