I love the suggestion too! If I looking to be retaliatory, it would be great. However by DB protocol, I don't think it would improve our R :-).

No further contact from H today and I ignored his e-mails. I was hoping to build on our friendly interactions lately but the D will be a road block. From the beginning I told him I will not contribute to a D and will not aid the process along. I will let things play out how they're going to play out.

It's been another busy day. Unfortunately I'll have no relaxation time this weekend. I'm heading up to Seattle for a medicine class both days - 12 hrs days with driving. At least it will aid in the no contact with my H...

Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09