Went to L and everything went well with financials. H mentioned more than once -- I give you half of my paycheck and you have your whole paycheck. These financials will give him a real truth dart. I did all the bills and H had no clue what it costs to run a house.
I do agree that it can't be easy for H no matter how much he pretends. He has no real friends anymore except OW or maybe her family and friends. H called D28 this week. Told her he has lost weight and taking it easy. Said he went to a rodeo this week with guys to get away and golfed. I don't think that is true or maybe he went with OW since he can't be seen with her here in town.
It does get discouraging. I am in the same position as you -- away from my family. It is hard being on my own. The weekends are the toughest even though I try to keep busy.
I pray he awakens from this and see what is really important.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
