Tom..yeah..I think it will be a challenge to find the right balance and it sounds like you are well on your way, if you are planning your first date..that's very cool Of course contacting her everyday is a little overkill for sure, so I guess think about how much is comfortable for you and gauge it from there, whether every other day or like 3 times a week is good or not enough or too much..I think you're in a good spot to be able to tell and see signs of what is working and what's not! I WISH I had the magic formula that if you call her x amount of times that it would be perfect, but we women are all unique LOL!
As for how to interact with someone you haven't contacted/done anything with for a year, I think you would almost have to look at it as if it was someone you just met. YES I know you know her, but think about when you meet someone new in your job or somewhere out, how do you interact with them?
Tawnya
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