I don't even know anymore...

[peacetoday]

Kiki
Jeanette is right ..when we have kids with them it is a forever sentence for us to deal with them
It is a NO win situation for most of us
they will not come back
they are spinning and they have the ability to justift their actions
they do not tkae the high road and they are ok with it
we have tried
you have been graceful and strong throughout this
I think for my self..where is the line
I know when I am pleasant to XH, he is more cooperative
the line has to be where we are pleasant, but detached so we dont get sucked back in
If XH was not coming back ever and I knew that
What would I do
What would my boundries be
THats probably the answer

Whatever amount of energy we would want to give our WAS if we KNEW for sure they would NEVER return
the amount of energy that allows for a brief CO_Parenting interaction

wish the CO parent Well
and move into my life creating exactly what I want
I think that is mY answer for today
thanks
good luck Kiki
peace