Yea, I know you want to show compassion for her but at the same time, you needed to be guarded as well. She has done a lot of damage to the kids and yourself. You definitely don't want to backslide but at the same time, not show your cards.
At this point, like you said, she is probably thinking about you and the kids. I'm sure the OM doesn't want to have to take care of someone with a medical condition. Funny how its all great times until reality checks in. Then it's not so great.
