No Tawnya, I haven't done anything for her today. That's where I'm at a loss; I don't want to be too pushy or too available. But I'm don't want to be too unavailable either.

I'm working on a plan for our first date.

There will be no sitter for the weekend; unless you count her. She's watching the kids Sat. night whilst I go out. These were plans made before she decided that she wanted to date again. And I like to keep me commitments.

Anyway, how do you interact with a person who has wanted nothing to do with you for a year; to now wanting to date? How do you go from never initiating contact to deciding how much contact to make? Certainly, you don't just pick up and have contact every day?


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