Tom..that sounds like a great plan, about seeing what works and keep doing it and throw out what doesn't?! Have you done anything today, sent her a text just as a "hi or how's your day?" As a girl, even something as simple as this would let ME know that you were thinking of me during your work day and we know that you men take your work time seriously, so it means extra. Of course, I can't speak for your W, but..
When is your next or first scheduled/planned date night? Can you get a sitter and go out this weekend or something? Just some random thoughts.
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four