No, no discussions about anything - even the questions I ask about household logistics or the weather get (basicly) 1-word answers. And you have to understand that she is VERY chatty and social - with everyone else.
Back when we were having periodic R discussions, she did bring up the idea of D, but never separation. And D was always in the abstract - as in "Maybe it would be better for our kids if we D, because then we (she) can move on and give them an example of loving and supportive R's rather than the one we are going to have together."
I'm just worried now because I can see that she is stewing and not talking (to me or to C). I am concerned that when she stops stewing and starts talking, she will already have things too fixed in her mind to reconcile.
...But maybe that won't be what happens. Maybe I just need to be more patient.
I'm sure not starting any R discussions or changes today, and will then be away for the next one.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
