There is a difference in "being kind" and letting yourself be abused just for the sake of restoring your marriage.

Kiki needs to set up some serious boundaries and stick to them for once, as she hasn't really did that in all these years due to her kindness, which has got her nowhere with him.

Nothing is going to change unless she changes it.

Nothing

Wait....yes, something will change, her living conditions, that is almost a certain change and not of the good kind.

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.

Change the Policy.
Allow PM's
Free all of us.

Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!

:-)