Mules, besides the strength and honor motto, I really like the quote from your father. Those are good words to live by. Having the kids with someone stable such as yourself is the best thing for them.
Has the financial aspect of the D been determined? I got the custody issues settled first and then the financials seemed to drag on (and they still are).
I hope you get to enjoy some fun adult time when your STBXW has the kids for visitation.
