Kalini, Thanks for the positive words, and perspective. Two months feels like a long time. I am also adding in some of the time from before the separation when I was trying to improve things.
During the separation time so farI have focused on myself, and taking care of myself. Lots of things to do like shopping for food, paying bills, etc.
She has openly talked about divorce for some time. But she has not done anything to move forward on that front.
Our interactions are either business like or full of conflict. The conflict comes from various areas. So the hard feelings have not completed faded.
She did ask if I want to go on a possible spring break trip with her and the kids. We went as a family on a spring break trip the last few years. I am considering it, but not really wanting to go for a variety of reasons. The reasons for not wanting to go on a spring break trip out of state include: it will not solve our problems when we have barely spoken much cost of travel work commitments because this was not planned and above all not wanting to go with her
Me: 41 W: 41 Married: 17 years Together: 19 years 16-Sept-2008: "W: I want to move out." 16-Jan-2009: Separated, wife moved out. 31-Mar-2010: W, and kids move back home! D 14 S 12 D 11 S 7
