Very nice title trapt. And the answer is, ummm... yes.
Um...well stop allowing him to, if that is what you mean.
I'm kind of cruising all over today so I have been in a hurry. Perhaps I should have mentioned as well that while most of the time they are not deserving, our spouses, X's, whatever... need to be shown our best too.
They are lost.
I also hope that the um....yes was an answer to the positive part too. Our loved ones deserve to be given our best despite of the stuff we are currently going through.
I still would like to touch on a few more things about last night but I have to run to my next stop.