the reasons that you stay by his side and enable him.
I can't explain it as well as Lil would but I do not enable him anymore. yeah , I used to be guilty of that. I let his drinking consume my life. I felt like sh*t. Alcoholisn is very complicated Thank God for Lil, she opened my eyes. She helped me to see I wasnt defective. That I could still be a intelligent , caring , confident Woman . And still be in love with an alcoholic. You have seen my photos. I am not this weak little Woman who lives as a victim. { I used to think I was til I met LIL!~} I am strong, I love you too Lucky. Love, Ali
