Wife is out and annouced OM to all #2

[Beans]

Glad to hear your sitch is headed in the right direction!
I'm sure it would be hard to "act" like you are dating someone you don't know when in reality you know them well. But then again remember you are starting on the path of a better relationship! Take it slow and really listen to her. I know that is something I need work on. Instead of thinking of what you are going to reply with. Empathy compassion! Things will come!

Wishing you all the best!