Yea, I have the 5LL book and it's all filled out from the last time that we went through it. I plan on re-reading it.
Quote:
Lead her do not pursue.
This is powerful; yet a little unclear. If I understand you Coach; I'm to be confident, plan our time together, something that works with her LL; and yet that is somehow not pursuing. Obviously, I'm not going to be begging, showering her with gifts, etc.; not that type of pursuit.
But last April, she had mentioned that she had always wanted me to pursue her. That's where I have trouble. The history behind us; and her desire to date, with my knowledge that she wanted me to pursue her last year. Putting all that together without sabotaging our recovery or appearing fake is a perceived obstacle to me right now. Not one that cannot be overcome; just something that seems unnatural. For some reason I feel I have to "date" her as though I would someone I've just met; and that would require acting. "as if?"
