Over the Shock - Detaching and GALing

[Thinker]

I have no idea...

I have though about it a bit, and everything seems to fall into either the category of "Pursuing" or "Initiating R Discussions"

I know pursuit won't work - note her flight reflex discussed above.

The only weakness I know of in the wall is our sons. It is hard for her to detached when I am playing with the kids and she is around (although she tries really really hard to do just that) - so that is one easy and fun way to take a few bricks out here and there. Don't think it will take the wall down.

I may have to find a way to start gently initiating R discussions.

The other option is to just let her build the wall...