MC, I will give more input later. One of your biggest goals right now is to rebuild trust. You do that by showing her thru your actions. Lead her do not pursue. Do you know her LLs? If so plan dates that will feed her LL. Really study up on validation and practice it (getting defensive is a buzz kill.) Look into her eyes with compassion. Have no expectations just go to listen and be attentive. Make this fun for yourself. You can handle it. Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.