Well we actually had a very good C session. H got some good advice for his job situation. We were able to talk openly about his continued depression.
We made an appointment on Monday for h to see his Dr again and possibly try a new AD med. We want to see what his Dr recommends.
I was able to confront h about his continued blaming and anger issues and have some good verbiage to use when this starts happening.
H doesn't trust me as to my behavior and thinks I could fly off the handle at any moment. Ok so this is an area that I will work on.
We also discussed a possible workout schedule where h and I could try to invest some time into working out together.
We also discussed my drastic mood swings and what I could do to improve in this area.
We also set up 2 more sessions, so we can try to start going to C weekly. We had gotten off track with h out of town for the past weeks and we couldn't set up any appointments.
The C thought that we were doing good though, compared to where we have been. He mentioned how much time we were spending together, we seemed to enjoy each other, and h's depression seems to have gotten better. He did mention that it would take time for the anger issues and resentment and that we both needed to start letting go of that little by little. So that was all encouraging.
Today h will be here around 11am. I have a chiropractic appointment for my back. Feeling much better though.
I certainly didn't get to accomplish near what I wanted to on vacation, but oh well at least I did do some relaxing.
We will see how today goes!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"