Siverado, Thank you for your thoughtful post. I will look into it.
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Many men view ED as a blow to their masculinity and react in some very non-constructive ways.
My hubby has started to drink again. Not like he used to but here and there. I have had people tell me that alcohol can cause ED.
I also added fuel to the fire by getting upset when it first happened. IE~ taking it personal. Not to make excuses but I have had issues with infidelity with him and that came to mind first. AND THEN also the fact that he has so many rules about sex. Hard = horny he would tell me and when you arent wet it = you arent horny for me Ali.
I have worked thru a lot of feeling these past few days. I do think this will bring us closer together now that I have had time to take it all in. ( no pun intended*) He is still open to being touched. I hope that stays. It is far less than it used to be , I have read physical touch is one of the first things to go? No thanx. I would wither up.
Anyway love, thanks for your honesty. Onward and upward.
COMPASSION> I have to keep this word on the brain. It is all too tempting with 3 years of transforming myself to want to say to him. You were so hard on me.... why should I? How come you? Why?
