Sam, that's cool that you shopped for/with your wife. Why would any woman not want to hang on to that? I'll have to read your thread!
Originally Posted By: Tawnya
Sam..yes shopping for and/or with your wife gets points in most women's books no doubt!!!
Originally Posted By: pearlharbr
Sam, I honestly wouldn't know what to do with a man who picked out shoes for me. It's such a foreign concept! Good for you buying her jewelry. I agree with Amy, I don't know why she wouldn't want to be with you!
Amy, Tawnya, pearl: Thank you very much! Just realized coming in to work this morning how I feel pretty darn good! You three saying this gave me a HUGE PMA boost! Makes me realize there are women out there that appreciate that kind of stuff and that I'll be able to meet someone new that fits me well, even if things don't turn out with my W. In all fairness, I think my W does appreciate it, but doesn't think of letting me know? I think that has been a problem between us: not letting each other know we appreciate each other and that went on until we both stopped doing the things that we appreciated from each other... I have turned that around on my end and I am starting to see expression of appreciation from my W, so I still keep having good hope for our sitch.
Back to YOUR sitch pearl: I would let your job hunting steer you as far as moving is concerned. Look for jobs in both CO and SF. Suppose you found a GREAT job in SF, then move there for it. If you found the PERFECT job for you in CO, don't you think you could be happy there? I wouldn't move just for the sake of moving, JMHO.
