Accelerated divorce due to OM...normal?

[MrNiceGuy]

as it works out though a little bit of reality slowly sinks in b/c they're maybe kind of in a fantasy state about how life with the OP will be perfect. But the OP's are usually kind of messed up so don't think that often happens like they imagine.

My observations with my WAW are similar. She has painted this god-like image about the OM and finds every opportunity to fault me for anything, plus she's planning a long vacation with him this summer.

I would not be surprised to receive divorce papers any day in preparation for that vacation. I can only imagine what will happen a year from now when/if it all falls apart on her.

I'm finally feeling sorry for her, starting to wake up and see that I can move on without her and that her fear of ending up alone may come true due to all the bridges she's burning in her current mental state.