Yeah, I'm just kind of wondering if I should let her know I have submitted for one of the BA positions there because it would help me get going and it would help us move to Jacksonville FL where she eventually wants to move to in the next couple of years if things don't work out with OM.
If I don't tell her and she finds out which she will, oh man, she is going to be livid. But if I do tell her, I wonder if she will try and sabotage it. She is quite the popular one there. She knows everyone there. Heck, that is where she met OM at before he was fired.
Just trying to decide if it is better for her to know and explain how it helps us towards her goals or if it is better for her not to know and I just show up and she freaks out.
If I don't tell her and I get the interview and she sees me walking by to interview with no prior knowledge, I wonder what she will do.
Great post 25...
My gosh Kevin did you read this post about the job. It's all about HER what she MIGHT do...Until you get to the point where it's about you and what is best for you and your kids you're going nowhere. I know it's hard we ALL know it's hard if it was easy there would be no need for a place like this. Nothing you are doing now is helping your kids, you, or your M you need to see that and understand that.
Give me an honest answer...IF you get offered this job and your wife throws a fit says the meanest things she's ever said to you would you turn down the job, I lean towards you would.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
