I had the browser page open for this site the other day. I was cooking and on the phone with a girlfriend. Hubby had gone to run an errand. He came back before I knew it and he had a shocked look on his face when he was sitting in front of the computer. OOPs~ To make a long story short?
He thinks I want a Divorce. It seems to have "rattled" his cage some. We talked for long time. He told me he has changed a lot and he will try some more...... If you want to leave Ali? Leave, dont stay for the kids.... I assured him I don't a Divorce. That I have been going there for 3 yrs to read articles.
So now that we have reached my sexual milestone? { and I thought that we were home free to an extent!! } We have been thrown another huge curveball. The ED. He is uncomfortable "taking" about it.
WE still sleep like spoons all nite and snuggle and kiss. When we watch a Movie we look like a human pretzel. But there is a different energy to him at times. He feels devastated. I don't want to feel sorry for him. It doesn't seem helpful. But right now I do. I know we can get thru this. I just dunno how to strike up a convo w/o seeming bossy?
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