My situation #9

[steady]

Journalling:

We are having a party for my D at her daycare for her birthday.
Yesterday afternoon my W called me and asked me if I was going to come. I told her I had to clear it with my boss and I wanted to go.

Then she said she had to ask me a favor. She said, "Don't talk about any relationship stuff or the stuff that's going on." I said, "That's no problem since I never bring this stuff up. You're the one who brings it up." She got aggitated but I didn't really care. Then she said she had to go and I said ok.

It's just her pushing my buttons, and me playing into it. I'm learning still.... Eventually I'll have it down pat.