If I leave I'll lose the custody of my kids and I won't be able to see them often.
I don't have any government support in france, I am not considered as poor. The current house we are living is very big with a pool; STBX was always jealous he had to let me live in during the divorce (well I retorted it was his decision to walk away!)
And no, I have never tried any dating since his MLC and the divorce thing. I am really busy (drives D15 at 7am, then D12 7h30; then go to work; come back home at 4pm;pick up D12 at 5pm; then D15 at 6pm. I have to cook all the meals (very seldom get a pizza or eat outside)and all the yard/pool/housework. I can show you my chalet (it's on a mountain and neighbours are far away) later.
Will visit your thread after my job, have to go.
A+
my last thread : Lost in his MLC
http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=957116&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1