You'd think H would have learned by now that nagging generally causes the opposite reponse that is desired. A daily reminder is not going to encourage me and is just irritating. Like I really could forget I have D papers waiting anyway!


Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09