Do I really know this man? I don't feel like I do. The man I know wouldn't be lying to me and deceiving me.
But, I do have a gut feeling about how he will react.
I have this sneaking suspicion that he is going to come to me (if he does) with half-a$$ed enthusiasm, and look to me for answers: "Well, I want to work on this, but I'm not sure it's going to work, but we can see how it goes, and what should we do to work on it?"
He says I act motherly but perhaps it's because he acts like a boy, not a man. So when I act motherly, he acts even less like a man, and it is a vicious cycle.
I could be all wrong about what he is going to do, perhaps he will just stay with OW. But, I know he is unhappy. In our phone conversation yesterday, I told him that I was happy despite what was going on in my life because I have God and I know there is a plan for my future. He sounded shocked when I told him that I am happy, and told me I must be living in a fantasy world (or something of that nature)!
What a jerk!
I guess he thinks my world should be falling apart since my adulterous husband left me.
If he does come to me with this half a$$ed enthusiasm, do you have any suggestions on what to say?
Other than I deserve his 100% and a positive attitude that we WILL work it out?
M:36 H:36 M 3 Y T 8 Y No kids Bomb 6/30/08 PA I filed 9/29/09 D final 1/22/2010
