Well, gee, I want to step in here and take up for Lan. I guess I feel like a mom or something.....it's okay for me to give him a 2x4, but I don't want anyone else to.....lol. Seriously, Lan has been through the mill and has stuck by his wife when others would have thrown up their hands and left a long time ago. I do see the point New Attitude is making, but just wanted to remind Lan not to slip backwards and getting sloppy at this point of the R.
I also wished I could get my hands on that wife of his!! Man, if I could only tell her what those Internet activities can lead to! Don't wait too long before you lay it on the line to her, Lan, b/c most people do not want to "willingly" lay that aside. After all, whatever the addiction is that has a hold on us......we don't want to see it as an addiction nor turn it loose. There are soooo many things on the Internet now days that can take up too much of what should be devoted to family time. You've got emails, FB, utube,bogs, games, on and on (that I don't know much about, obviously) but I know just the chat boads can be addictive and dangerous when there is flirting involved.
I sure hate seeing her behaving like this after all this M has gone through.
What I see happening to families in the near future is not good. When I was a kid, at least the entire family sat around the TV watching it "together". Now, each family member goes off into separate rooms to get their tech toy. Not good.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
