Let me recap: NO R talk. NO stress. The ex-OW meant nothing to him. Never did. Is gone. You CAN have a conversation with him that is relaxing (good show).
Now. If he sticks to the script, he may be in a foul mood again or very stand offish. That's normal when feeding wild animals and dealing with WAS. Their feelings have been crushed and they just don't know what else to do. They'll lash out and try to bite. Don't be alarmed. Don't let it make you mad or discouraged. Handle it the EXACT_SAME_WAY you did for dinner. Light. Cheery. Relaxing.
Somebody else mentioned that if you let the WAS see you suffer, they have all the control and oddly enough, that stresses them even more driving them even farther away.
It's all an act anyway, right?
Keep it up. Woo-hoo!
<chants>PMA. PMA. PMA. PMA.
Do NOT forget to work on you. Be the change you want to see in the world, young lady. Do it. Now. Go. <please? For you?>
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
