I just got done reading through your threads. Man, I gotta say that I see some commonalities between your family and my W's. by that I mean in the narcissism and selfishness. So there probably is some influence from that that has catapulted itself into your adult decision making.
Thanks for taking the time to come to my thread. I think I'm really going to need the input and advice from someone who's been through what my W has been through. Mainly because this will be new to me. I comfortable with what I've become; I was definitely unhealthy as a husband to her. but I'm much healthier now as an individual. I just hope that I can be healthy enough to keep the change in place as we tread down this path.