TxMom, How are things since he came out with his regrets? Has he had a whiplash and try to convince you that the other day meant nothing?
I think his re-consideration is a HUGE step forward for both of you. You going to Cancun is showing him that you can all have fun without him and get on very well. He is wondering, heck, what am I doing? Why am I missing out on all of this great stuff? Good for you. You've got his head whipped all the way around. He is now looking back, it's up to you what he sees.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09